Topics for talk, February.
Feb. 20th, 2026 10:39 pmI like many things about myself. I'll try and list them here:
1. I'm a good wife.
2. I'm a good mom.
3. I'm a great grandmother.
4. I'm kind.
5. I'm a good listener.
6. I'm understanding.
7. I'm loyal.
I'm boring myself. Sorry folks. Visions of doing the Snowflake Community again.
How about you?
Meme
Feb. 20th, 2026 11:40 pm
Because it's nice to let people know that we appreciate them.
In the spirit of love memes, this meme is a place to thank someone who's created something you love, or done something kind that you still remember after all this time, or who has made your fandom life (or your life in general!) better in some way.
🩵Appreciation Meme🩵
my thread is here!
Not quite. 365 days questions meme February
Feb. 20th, 2026 10:33 pm21. When was the last time you heard music played live (at a concert, in a musical)?
Oh my gosh, it's been years. We heard Jim Croce sing before he died. I saw Paul Revere and the Raiders in 1969. That's it. I wish I had a big list, but I don't.
How about you?
Fantasy story with loner male knight and cross-dressing female page
Feb. 21st, 2026 12:41 pmHe asked if I knew of any stories like that, since it feels like a really obvious premise, and I felt like I must have seen something along those lines by Tamora Pierce/ Mercedes Lackey etc but nothing came to mind. eg the Alanna series has the crossdressing page part but not the loner knight, Kel doesn't have the cross-dressing, etc.
So I come to you! At this point we're mostly just curious if it exists at all, but actual recs are definitely not unwelcome. Books/tv/movies, whatever.
Calling In Sick Would Have Been The Icing On The Birthday Cake
Feb. 20th, 2026 11:00 pmRead Calling In Sick Would Have Been The Icing On The Birthday Cake
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Manager: "I don't think I'm going to be able to give you that day off."
Me: *Explaining politely.* "I gave more than the required notice, and that nobody else in the department was scheduled for that day off. I really insist on having that day off."
Read Calling In Sick Would Have Been The Icing On The Birthday Cake
Heated Rivalry: Tuna Melts and Longitudinal Studies by OpalApparition
Feb. 21st, 2026 05:01 pmCharacters/Pairings: Shane Hollander/Ilya Rozanov, Rose Landry, numerous Reddit OCs.
Rating: Teen
Length: 20,175
Content Notes: No AO3 warnings apply. Some of the Reddit comments contain terrible advice!
Creator Links: OpalApparition on AO3
Themes: Inept in love, Canon LGBTQ+ characters, Humor, Unusual format & style, Epistolary, Outsider POV, Angst with a happy ending
Summary: I (26M) want to invite man I sleep with (26M) to my house to spend the weekend. Help me not ruin it.
Or: Ilya Rozanov goes to the internet for dating advice
Reccer's Notes: This is a long (9 chapters) social media epistolary fic based on Reddit, where Ilya asks the internet for advice before the tuna melt hookup. It's funny, very cleverly done, and the responses from Reddit users are often hilarious. We start with Ilya's post (he's orangespyder617 - his sports car name & Boston area code), and later, Shane (gingerale_MTL) also separately posts after he's bolted in panic and is dating Rose, and has realized he's really messed things up. There's some fun for the Reddit users in speculating about who these two rich, inept in love guys might be, and also later after Shane posts as Ilya has wiped his former thread by then but some users remember it and join the dots. Rose herself (kidnapped4times) also posts wanting advice about how to tactfully tell her boyfriend he's gay, and finally Ilya posts again. It reads exactly like Reddit, although I suspect with way fewer trolls, and the users often post memes and links to vids which work, and add to the realism. Throughout, Ilya and Shane amply demonstrate their ineptitude in love, starting with POSTING TO REDDIT ABOUT IT AT ALL! I grinned a lot.
Fanwork Links: Tuna Melts and Longitudinal Studies
Photos: House Yard
Feb. 20th, 2026 09:05 pm( Walk with me ... )
Epstein files mention party with 'a dozen one-year-olds.' We looked for answers
Feb. 21st, 2026 12:20 amDid Jesse Jackson once praise Trump for his commitment to underserved communities?
Feb. 21st, 2026 12:06 amWater
Feb. 20th, 2026 01:29 pmA new report from the United Nations warns humanity has entered an era that researchers call “water bankruptcy.” In many regions, yearly rainfall and river flows are no longer enough to meet demand.
In response, countries are increasingly drawing down groundwater reserves that can take centuries, or even millennia, to refill.
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Unraveling false rumor Savannah Guthrie's husband's company is in Epstein files
Feb. 20th, 2026 11:35 pmStevie Wonder appears in Epstein files for refusing to perform for Israeli army. Here's why
Feb. 20th, 2026 10:48 pmDoes video show White House Black History Month reception guests chanting '4 more years'?
Feb. 20th, 2026 09:19 pmNothing Beets A New Retail Urban Legend
Feb. 20th, 2026 09:00 pmRead Nothing Beets A New Retail Urban Legend
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I had a customer return a vacuum cleaner once, my supervisor did the return thankfully. The box went back on the floor unchecked. The next customer who wanted to buy it checked it out before they went to the register. They were back within hours.
Blackout Bingo - 2X2 Valentine's
Feb. 20th, 2026 08:03 pmFandoms: Miss Marple
Ratings: G
Pairings: Miss Marple, Lucy Eyelesbarrow/Dermot Craddock
Prompts from the Romantic section: Love at first sight, Taking it slow, Dinner for two, Dancing
A Fortunate Meeting on AO3
A Critical Miss On Customer Retention
Feb. 20th, 2026 06:55 pmRead A Critical Miss On Customer Retention

This used to work fine for about a year, until December 2022, when the previous owner announced he had sold the store off to focus on his family. His replacement gave us the side-eye when the third gaming room came up, but didn't raise a fuss until he was officially in charge.
Did Trump once say Obama would start war with Iran due to his inability to negotiate?
Feb. 20th, 2026 07:22 pm2026 52 Card Project: Week 7: Menneskeverd
Feb. 20th, 2026 12:55 pmSo the shop posted a pattern on the knitting website Ravelry, charging $5.00 for the download.
On the day that I went to the shop, they had raised $750,000.00 through the sale of the pattern, which they are donating entirely to charities to help people caught up in this extraordinary situation. People all over the world have downloaded it. The wall behind the cash register was full of letters from people who had knitted the hat and sent it to the store. I was able to buy a hat for $30.00 that someone had knitted and sent in.

While scrolling through some news feeds about this, I saw this Instagram post from a man who has a knit hat company in Norway who was talking about this story, and about the initiative to encourage people to wear their Melt the Ice patterned hats on February 26, which is the anniversary of the date that the Nazis attempted to outlaw the red hats. In the course of his commentary, he mentioned a Norwegian word that struck me as a very appropriate title for my collage this week: Menneskeverd, which refers to the fundamental, intrinsic value of every human being simply by virtue of being human.
That is what we are fighting for, here in Minnesota.
I thought about ICE, and icebergs, and how what you see is only a small part of what is hidden underneath. I mentioned when I did my post last week that I'm doing work that I can't talk about. We are ALL doing work that we can't talk about, here in Minnesota, much of it on the encrypted app Signal. The administration is rumbling about trying to outlaw the totally constitutionally protected actions we are taking to deal with this siege, threatening to subpoena media companies to identify people who dare to criticize ICE. I have wondered about the safety of my blog here, in this little corner of the internet where I have been posting for close to twenty years.
Well. Doing what we are doing requires bravery, because you see, even though the administration argues against empathy and threatens those of us who show it, we believe in the fundamental, intrinsic value of every human being simply by virtue of being human.
Edited to add: a comment I saw elsewhere: if we are no longer in the land of the free, at least we must be the home of the brave.
Image description: An iceberg floats in water. The view shows both the part of the iceberg above and below the water. The ice berg is topped by a red 'Melt the Ice' hat. Above the water surface is black text listing things being done openly: Rent relief, The Salt Cure, Diaper drives, Donating miles, t-shirts, 3D printed whistles, GoFundMe, Rebel Loon tattoes, signs on telephone poles, too many businesses to list, Safe Haven, Concerts. Below the water surface is a Signal app logo and text in white of things done in secret: rides for immigrants, grocery delivery, the People's Laundry, school patrols, neighborhood patrols, Rapid Response, Can I get a plate check?, donate breast milk, we need a translator, Dispatch.

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